Your Relationship. Your Data. Your Choice.
We believe both partners deserve equal control. That's why Couple Tools is the only relationship app where both partners have the same rights to access, download, and manage your shared life. No bosses. No power games. Just true partnership.
Built for Real Partnership
From the moment both partners join Couple Tools, you have identical rights and capabilities:
🔓Equal Access
- •View all shared content and history
- •Access your couple account from any device
- •See the same features and controls
- •No "admin" or "owner" privileges
📤Export Freedom
- •Download all your data anytime
- •Export messages, tasks, events, and notes
- •No approval needed from your partner
- •Take your data anywhere you want
🛡️Deletion Rights
- •Either partner can initiate account deletion
- •7-day grace period to reconsider
- •Both can export data during this time
- •Mutual consent required to restore
🔐Individual Privacy
- •Your personal settings stay personal
- •Update your profile without affecting your partner
- •Private items stay private until you share them
- •Change your password without locking them out
Thoughtful Transitions, Respectful Endings
Deletion Requested
- • Either partner initiates deletion
- • Account immediately becomes read-only
- • Both partners notified instantly
- • All features except viewing disabled
Grace Period
- • Review shared memories
- • Export everything you want to keep
- • Both partners can request restoration
- • Requires mutual agreement to cancel deletion
Permanent Deletion
- • All data permanently erased
- • User accounts removed
- • Login details deleted
- • Final confirmation sent to both
"The 7-day period saved us. We were able to cool down, talk, and restore our account. The equal control actually helped us communicate better."
— Anonymous couple
See the Difference Equal Autonomy Makes
| Scenario | Couple Tools | Typical Couple Apps |
|---|---|---|
| Account Creation | Both partners equal from start | One "owner" invites "member" |
| Data Export | Either can download everything | Usually needs account owner |
| Deletion Process | Either can initiate, 7-day grace period | Owner controls, immediate deletion |
| During Breakup | Both retain access for 7 days | Non-owner often locked out instantly |
| Restoration | Requires both to agree | Owner decides alone |
| Privacy Settings | Individual autonomy | Shared or owner-controlled |
Equal Autonomy in Action
Daily Equality:
"We both travel for work. Either of us can export our shared calendar to our work systems without asking permission. It just works."
— Marketing Manager & Sales Director
Respectful Privacy:
"I keep therapy notes private until I'm ready to share. My partner can't override my privacy settings, and I can't override theirs. Mutual respect is built in."
— Teacher & Designer
Emergency Access:
"When my phone died abroad, my partner could export our travel plans from their account. No "account owner" barriers when you need information most."
— Photographer & Writer
Graceful Changes:
"When we separated, we both had 7 days to save what mattered. No fighting over who "owns" the memories. The process was sad but dignified."
— Anonymous
The Equal Autonomy Promise
We promise that in Couple Tools:
- 1.Equal from day one - Once both partners join, you have identical rights forever
- 2.Export anytime - Your data is always yours to download, no exceptions
- 3.Deletion with dignity - 7-day grace period ensures fair access for both
- 4.No hierarchies - No account owner, no admin, just two equal partners
- 5.Both must agree - Big decisions need you both to say yes
- 6.Your data, your rules - We never claim ownership of your content
This isn't just a feature list. It's our commitment to building technology that respects modern relationships as equal partnerships.
Signed: The Couple Tools Team
"We built this because every other app made one of us the 'admin.' That's not how our relationship works, and it shouldn't be how our app works either."
Your Questions, Honest Answers
What happens in the 7-day deletion period?
The account becomes read-only. You can both view and export everything, but can't add new content. Either of you can request restoration, but both must agree to cancel the deletion.
Can my partner delete things without me knowing?
Yes, either partner can delete individual items. However, full account deletion triggers immediate notification to both partners and the 7-day grace period.
What if only one of us wants to restore the account?
Both partners need to agree to cancel a deletion. If only one wants to keep the account, the deletion continues after 7 days. This protects both of you equally.
Can we change who our partner is?
Only if they haven't joined yet. Once both partners have signed up, your couple account is permanently linked to just you two. This prevents anyone from secretly switching partners or taking over accounts.
Is the 7-day period mandatory?
Yes. This protects both partners from impulsive decisions and ensures equal opportunity to preserve shared memories. There's no way to skip it.
What exactly gets deleted after 7 days?
Everything. All messages, tasks, events, notes, your profiles, and login information. Once deleted, it's gone forever and can't be recovered.
How is this different from just sharing passwords?
Each partner has their own secure login. You maintain individual security while sharing data access. Neither of you can lock the other out by changing a password.
Join Thousands Who've Chosen True Equality
Experience what real partnership feels like in an app. No power games. No account bosses. Just two people, equally respected.
"After years of using apps where one of us was the 'admin,' Couple Tools feels revolutionary. We're actually equals in our shared space."
— Jordan & Sam, users since 2024